Sunday, October 23, 2011


There she stood. Calm and poise. Tall and strong.  Facing the hazard of weather.  She may melt under the scorching sun of Sahara or freeze by the bitterness of winter.

I wish  I could whisper to her  ears ………… sometimes you have to try not to care, no matter how much you do, because sometimes you mean nothing to someone who means so much to you. It’s not pride but self -respect……..

But still, like a statue,  she stood high with pride………. for many years to come.

Friday, October 14, 2011


We are more often being told that forgiving is a virtue. It is very noble indeed to forgo the resentment, hurt and pains caused by the wrongdoers to us. Yet it is easier said than done.

Forgiving someone isn’t as easy as simply to accept his apology amicably.  Or at least, give us the chance to vent out.

Or at other times, we rather hold the grudges and may never revealed if it is better to be in that way.However, holding the grudges for a long time isn’t a healthy things to do when the emotion is welling inside, just waiting for the right moment to burst out and eventually the outcome will be disastrous.

Learn to accept that people do not act the way we want them to be. They may unintentionally hurt us or they couldn’t help things that happen out of their control. The nicest things to do is to let it go for sake of our peace of mind.

Nevertheless, one thing for sure, everything can be forgiven, but not forgotten.

Monday, October 10, 2011


.....the most depressing thing you'll ever know. The feeling you had was beyond description. Rejection, hurt, anger, humiliation, alone, unloved, pain, shame and everything mingled, making the wound unbearably bleeding. 

....the earth under your feet seemed to be shaking, while your vision seemed to be blurred. The denial came like a tidal wave that rock your sensibility. The wave brought a tightening shock to your chest, stabbing pain and shallow breathing. The impact was so great that you'd lost your balance.

Heartbroken.....nothing but a total lost of hope. Suddenly you felt this anger.....angry with everyone around you. As if they could not comprehend the amount of pain and anguish that well up inside you. The world seemed shattered. No birds singing in the sky. The water seemed to stop flowing. Panorama of colour vanished. Everything was quiet, grey and cruel.

But as for one, who had been through this....I may say it is not the end of the world. No matter how heartbroken you are, how much pain you're in now, try to remember that, amazing as it may be, This too shall pass eventually. Time is the essence that heals the pain and sorrow. Though can be hard to believe that when  we're in the midst of feeling so hurt.

Please my son goes thru this pain amicably. Mend his bruise and wound. Help him pick up the broken pieces. Let him be a wiser man and let this pain  be part of growing up. Ameen.